Quote:
Originally Posted by All Is Revealed
It's very possible. It will take time and patience for this to happen. You girls will need to go out, hang out, and share secrets. Only when someone is 100% comfortable with you, are they willing to cross their boundaries. This involves you girls visiting each other's homes, sleeping together (as friends) and almost acting like a couple.
Us guys call it a bromance when we feel like this. A straight friend of mine once kissed me when I least expected it. It made our male bond stronger, and we kissed several times after that. But he is married now to a woman and with kids. I always saw him as a friend, not a boyfriend.
You can do it. I believe in you.
 |
So are you suggesting that any straight person would be willing to get romantic with person of the same gender if you pursue them aggressively enough? But by the same logic gay person would eventually get romantic with a person of opposite gender if that person constantly pursued them? Really?
So it would be wise of me, straight woman, to pursue a gay man by being by his side 24/7 and climb to bed with him (as friends) and then eventually he’d succumb to my pursuits and kiss me?
That’s the strangest logic I’ve ever seen. Why would somebody pursue that aggressively person with different sexual orientation? That’s not even respectful. It invalidates who people are.
Climbing in bed with person of different sexual orientation in hopes they cross a boundary is just sending a message that you (hypothetical) have no respect for those persons preferences