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Old Nov 12, 2017, 07:49 PM
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Maybe the big question is WHY are your parents meddling? Do they see something about this guy that YOU refuse to see or are blinded to seeing? Does your family really habe yoyr best interest in mind & are trying to protect you from an abusive relationship that ypu just may NOT be getting yet? Or do your parents do this to every BF of yours?

Dont let JUST a BF drive you aeay from your parents. BF's are usually temporary or you may come to understand the issue your parents have with him. You havent volunteered this level of information to base any WISE comments on.

If this BF is really a good person & your parents are against him for a really illogical reason then I will say TIME. There is NOTHING YPU CAN DO. It is his responsibility to show them that he is NOT the kind of person that your patents ate not liking. It takes time to prove to anyone that they can in reality trust him & that what they thpught about him was in FACT wrong. It takes time for trust to grow & it will yake evidence on his part to prove them wrong which can only come in the form of them seeing behavkors that counter what they see bad in him that makes them want to meddle & protect you. If they didnt love you they wouldn't bother meddlying unless this is the way they are with everylne in your life.
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