T let me know she'd be traveling, and logically I know she's a real human who occasionally likes to, you know, do something other than be a therapist.

Irrationally, I'm upset about it.

Luckily she does allow outside contact. And while I know she won't respond, I still feel "connected" when I email her. If you can't e-mail your T, what about writing letters journaling to your T that you can share in your next session?