Looked at previous posts....OT only...I saw no connections with this thread...who is spinning who?

To the OP, I don't see any positives in comparing yourself to others...you're no one else but you. I would recommend promoting positive self-talk which will significantly boost your self esteem. I do know someone who is very clingy...would call me and call me and call me until I pick up at all hours of the day and night. Wake me up at night, wake me up first thing in the morning. She'd text me like crazy too. I literally had to change my phone number and block her on facebook just to make it stop. It wasn't healthy, even though I do think of her as a good person.