(FYI: I see you are a new member. Your first 5 posts are moderated and take some time to actually show on the forums, so this thread may have just shown -- not sure, I haven't been online much in the last day or so. Just don't want you to think you have been ignored. You are beyond your first 5, so your posts will now show up in real time.)

Welcome. Have you considered writing down your thoughts and handing them to her or reading them aloud? It might help you get past the block of initially bringing up the topic.