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Nov 12, 2017, 11:23 PM
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Member Since: Apr 2014
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Originally Posted by Olive303
I think he is too because he has had such negative experiences with them. The last time they saw him they treated him poorly and he hasn't had any direct interaction since then. I understand why he feels the way he does. I want the chance to at least try to mend it and I don't think he is willing at this point. He respects my relationship with them he just doesn't want us close to them. He understands my desire but he does not share the same desire and is essentially asking me to chose between staying in our relationship in a state I hate and have no friends in or move back home to a place with my friends and family.
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Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder
Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less...
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