Yes, being lied to and stolen from are huge red flags. I had no real proof of him stealing, and of course he denied it, but I suspected he stole some of my meds because some went missing. He DID steal a pair of earrings, that I know, and early on, my ativan went missing at the hotel and he claimed that a staff member must have taken them. Now I doubt that story. We also found a wallet on the beach, he insisted on taking it home with us and it had a $20 in it -- a couple days later and the $20 was missing. We returned the wallet without all its money in it. Good Lord, WHY I got mixed up with him..... wish I could go back, rewind and do it all over again.