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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
I’m happy for you, too. Forgiving ourselves is a great idea. I forgive myself, too, for my unhealthy coping with an unfixable situation. If i really have BPD, I hug and console myself, since no one else will. I will treat myself with better care and it will go into remission when I get out of this horrible marriage.
It’s funny, I could be a relationship expert. I have so much experience with them and give great advice. But, I cant have a romantic relationship myself anymore. How ironic! That nasty psychiatrist really got under my skin. I feel like The Scarlet Letter now.
Oh well... let me just get out of this nightmare alive first.
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YES. Self-compassion, self-forgiveness AND self-love are all so important through the healing process.
I am glad that you hug and console yourself. Life is tough enough where we really don't need to beat ourselves up for a condition we have or for any perceived weaknesses we may have. It's good to work on ourselves, always, and to work towards self improvement, but with kindness in our hearts towards ourselves always.
It's so much easier to give advice I find..... Sorry that nasty P got under your skin -- GRRRRRRR. Not right.
Yes, get out of your current nightmare... and hopefully in one piece!!!! (((((((Hugs))))))))) You will be OK, in the end.