It takes time... the death of a relationship requires mourning the loss. I have cried over the loss of my abusive ex, despite him being abusive. What I've cried about really is the loss of the dream of him & what he represented to me, ie, a long-term commitment and marriage.

There WILL be others, and there WILL be more love in your life, should you want it. Know that the sun WILL and DOES shine again. You are a lovely person, so cherish yourself for all that you are and all that you have to give. (((((Hugs))))))