This guy sounds toxic to me. You need to get away from him. I don't think he's destroying you. I think he's destroying any semblence of a therapeutic relationship with you. How did you get this therapist? Did you pick him out, or did someone else?

He sounds very inappropriate. From what I've read of your posts you don't strike me as all that angry in your manner. But this guy seems to have quite a potential for hostility. From time to time (and it's happened to me) you can find yourself with a mental health professional who just doesn't like you. I don't think that person can do you much good . . . or any good.

Are you at liberty to choose another therapist? This guy seems to act like he's got control over you. He sounds flat out abusive to me. Never assume that having letters after one's name guarantees anything. He may be a jerk.