It is just one of those things...I believe that we are pre-destined to end up at the end of a path (even being a Christian I can believe this) but we have the free will to chose which fork in the road we travel. You have to wonder (or I do) was I destined to be with my wife...or am I dreaming that we will be together...wow that even seems pretty cryptic. I know I love her and I know that I want to spend the rest of my life with her, but am I supposed to?