I was advised to avoid social media....I didn’t listen and was so sure of myself that I was being reasonable.....I lost my mind and wish I’d have listened earlier......or I wish I’d have told everyone to fluck off and allow me my humanity without calling it “wrong”.........if you want your wife to babysit, go for it......if you want to throw the computer out the window, send it to me instead. Whatever you decide, I hope you are well.