My youngest son likes to be neat and tidy.If there is a crumb on the floor he freaks out till someone cleans the floors. I never really thought any thing about it until 2 days ago he came home crying because he got 15 out of 16 on his spelling test. He wanted to get them all right and I helped him study all week. Am I raising a perfectionist? Or possibly OCD? Not looking for diagnosis, Just advise.