I;ve just cried in T this morning. I was talking about how I was told my birth mother wanted to see a photo of my birth brother who had been adopted with me, but never asked how I was doing a yr after she had given me up. As I spoke these words I just cried and funny enought in the car on the way home I realised that I really need to feel the compassion from the person sitting with me for me to be able to really sob, it kinda of allows me to have that same compassion for myself. MIind you its taken a while for me to cry, the first yr i would bite my lips rather then cry.