I have finished some of the relationships I was in. One was with the father of my children. I was with him 7 years. I finished because he was a nightmare , abusive , controlling and a theif. He was a nut case when we broke up and staked me and constantly phoned me in the middle of the night to insult me and say he was going to commit suicide . I've deffinately dated someone more cray cray than myself. He was a drug addict and was violent as well as bizarre. He lived next door to me and he tried to force me to go home naked , physically dragging me out the door , he would over react about small things even using too much toilet paper or not replacing the toilet paper when it run out. He punched me repeatedly in the stomach because I refused sex with him. I ended it with him too by putting a letter through his door explaining I wanted no more contact with him again. I then moved out the following week so I fortunately never had to see him again.