Yes I had an ex boyfriend who was very abusive towards me. He'd ghost on me all the time and come back to me anytime he felt like it. Each time he came back, somehow it was my fault why he disappeared and I was the one always feeling guilty and would always find myself apologizing to him.

He made it seem as if I was the crazy nut, unhealthy, had issues and would nit pick on anything I did. It seemed like nothing ever made him happy and he would verbally and emotionally abuse me constantly. It got to the point where I had no self esteem and I started to have suicidal thoughts.

In the end, he basically told everyone how I abused him and treated him unfairly. He never took responsibility for anything he's done and he still won't admit to it. Anytime you meet anyone who's toxic or abusive, it's best to block them and have no contact with them because every so often they'll try to come back and see if you let them in again.

They'll lie, say that they changed, that their sorry and how much they missed you. It's all a great big lie. Don't fall for it. Remove yourself from the situation and cut off contact with them.