I have a question for anyone here:
So I am online again doing online dating, just for casual fun and meetups, and NOT for a serious relationship right now.
I am talking to a guy and he wants to meet up this week. I don't want to divulge ANYTHING about having been abused in my last relationship. In fact, I don't even want to talk about my relationships, but IF he asks, I'm going to have to mention something... like I recently got out of a relationship.
Thing is, I have a happiness blog, and I just posted two entries all about emotional abuse. I like sharing my blog with new people, it's a good conversation piece, so It's something I would probably mention on a date, but I DON'T want to divulge that I was recently abused.... of course, that's going to make someone probably run in the other direction.
So how do I approach it? Share my blog and if they happen to read it, just tell them that yes, I've been through some abusive relationships in the past and know a bit about the topic?
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