My daughter is kind of a slob. She can’t stsnd living in a mess but she has hard time managing it. I think it might improve with age. The difference is she doesn’t live with me, she is grown up and on her own. So it’s her business now. I think since you live with family you have to do whats important for them. My husband is kind of a natural slob. But he keeps the house tidy because I can’t stand mess. So do it for your family