dragonphoto...I so believe the same thing about destiny yet the free will to choose how we get there and on what paths we will take along the journey.

If you feel in your gut that you and your wife belong together, then you must continue down whatever paths there are to get to that point. It may be that her paths are running pararell to yours at the moment so as not to be intersecting. It may be that they will at some point intersect...yet they may not. I believe you will know this when the time is right for you to know.

In other words....right now you are following the path you should be....there are lessons to be learned along that path. Once those lessons are learned, things will be clearer to you. Your wife is also following her path and learning her lessons as well. Confusing sometimes isn't it??

There is also the thought that some people come into our lives to help us and don't always stay. Their job is not to stay yet to teach us what we are supposed to learn. If this is the case with you and your wife, you will know it when the time is right. I'm not saying that this is goingt to happen, but it is a possibility don't you think?

Follow your heart, your gut and your mind. Find a way to combine them to make the most sense for you.


sabby