I'm sorry you didn't get the feedback you wanted but just because you did not hear what you wanted is not a reason to lash out at our community. We've tried to give you honest feedback based on what we all know about and have experienced with mental illness. Many of us have been in your shoes.

You will hear many different perspectives in this community, and you may not agree with them all, but everyone here means well. You seem a bit blinded by this love. Is it really true love if you have to spend nearly half the year being emotionally tortured by this person? Do you not think that you deserve better and more? I have never heard of someone with bipolar having a total personality switch and not remembering what they did when hypomanic. And I have gotten to know plenty of people with bipolar really well on this forum. You have people with bipolar and people who have been in relationships with bipolar people here on the forums giving you feedback. No one here is out to get you, but they can only advise you based on what they know.

So take what you want away from the feedback you hear on here, but please do not lash out at us because you didn't hear what you wanted. We are only trying to help and telling you the truth as we see it.

Seesaw