I think there was a great deal of solid, good, unbiased advice given here from a wealth knowledge community.
You seem to keep posting a defense for this thread. I'm not sure you're able to step back & really look at this advice. Clearly.

And the line "I'm sorry you never experienced true love & soulmate..." is condescending to say the least. It's like me saying..." I'm guessing you're under 25 yrs old?"