Just so you know. I have not been offended by anything anyone has said - however, I do know that people can tend to stop listening to the speaker when it comes to abuse. They hear "abuse" and go on auto pilot thinking there is one solution to fit all cases - and it just doesn't work that way. I wish I could say it did bc I have times I want to magically remove victims from their situations too.

I truly value both your friendship n your advice - and when I say "that's a loaded question" - it just means ... there's a lot of different ways I could respond or a lot of information to give you in response ...

Nothing at all against you

I apologize if I hurt you CepheidVariable