I agree with Septi's comments. I think there is something to be taken from each of those that are telling you things. I have found that there usually is a balance that can be found.....even if it only means that I feel comfortable with taking one path or another and am willing to accept the outcome as it comes.

Acceptance of the possibilities of different outcomes is what helps us deal with them when/if they come about. It doesn't mean that we have to like the possible outcome, but we can at least prepare for it so it doesn't knock us off our feet.


sabby