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Old Nov 14, 2017, 03:41 PM
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Originally Posted by golden_eve View Post
I'm sorry. He's now giving you contradictory information. At first it was that you didn't connect enough and no spark, and now it's logistics. Wonder what the real truth is. That would be maddening to me. Maybe he doesn't even know.

I wouldn't assume that you loved him more. Whatever the case may be, he has decided that it cannot work out.

I know this saying is sooo cliche, but if it's meant to be, it will be. And if not, then you gotta try and let go and move on.. easier said than done, I know all too well.

((((Hugs)))))
I honestly don't know what to think anymore. I think I started letting go. I've got no energy to fight, cry, think. Just this numbness in my head. I'm actually relieved he didn't respond to my alst email because I don't think I have anything more to say.
I'm just so scared I'll fall to bits tomorrow. Or a day after.
I'm accepting now that I wasn't left by bipolar, I was left by a person I loved and still love. And I can't change it. He doesn't want me. Reasons are irrelevant.
As you said, it wasn't meant to be.

And how are you feeling today?
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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006 View Post
unfortunately most of the advice you might receive or analysis of your situation will be based on assumption and no one here really has enough information for real analysis.

The best person to give you the answers you're looking for is going to be your ex partner who broke it off. only he knows the full answer to your question as to why, and whether you did anything wrong but.. that being said, why after he said it isn't anything you've done do you still ask what you did wrong?

There are cases where relationships don't work out when it's not based on anyone doing anything wrong. People don't always work out as couples but that does not necessarily mean either one is wrong or had to offend or transgress the other's limits. sometimes it's just incompatibility, other times it's that one or the other is not ready etc...

It's not easy to endure a break up when you thought things were great but don't beat yourself up about it and although you'll need to grieve the loss, try to move on, as you may never have all the answers.
I've got some answers from him today. Even silence is an answer.
I don't think I've done something intentionally wrong, but maybe I just didn't know how to handle him.

He is genuinely good person and I was blessed to have someone like that in my life. I just miss him a lot.
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