Because I have been a member for 6 months, and haven't attended a meet up yet.

The woman organizer who wrote me the message, asked if there was a reason why I haven't been to a meet up yet in the 6 months I've been in it. And she told me to respond because if I didn't she'd delete me.

The thing I found weird, was I'd been planning on going to their meet up yesterday because it was in my area, and sounded fun. But I was on the mend from a really bad stomach bug, and thought not to chance it. I even wrote a message on the groups wall say that it sounded fun, but that I was getting over being sick and wouldn't be able to attend.

Another thing I found weird, was that they have over 700 members. I'm confused about why a group of that size would delete members. I thought it was only in the 50 member range you'd need to delete members.

I ended up asking the woman who wrote me the message, if they were reducing their members, because I felt singled out. I even told her that. I wasn't rude. But I needed to say something.

I might be having an overly emotional reaction to this. I just feel hurt and rejected and threatened. I also feel like it was a strange email, and got the feeling like she was on some kind of power trip. Though she may very well might be deleting people who don't attend. I just thought it was weird I got her message after I wrote on their wall yesterday.

Dealing with emotions...