I quit the first one today. She seemed surprised, but I pointed out she had been useful in keeping me from killing an md when my person was ill - but now there was no real point. Just going in and saying I am still sad seems to be a bit of a waste and I have no need to have her point out (like she did today) the glaringly obvious fact that I seem to be having trouble moving on/making decisions about some of the estate stuff and the combining pet stuff. Because I am not actively unkind, I did not go on about all the ways I have found therapy not useful. I wonder if I would have quit today if I had not been so put off by the way she stated the obvious.
So that is it then.