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Originally Posted by spidytolerate
(sorry to anyone reading this thread, i´ll be repeating some of the information because i want to reply to people individually)
My relationship with him is complicated. We used to be together, but he broke up (valid reasons) now we´re....friends with benefits i´d call it. It´s not making me happy at all, but i don´t want to break it off because well, i love him! Gosh, bad as it sounds, i wish i could control peoples emotions sometimes.
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Firstly, leaving someone for their health issues is not a valid reason. Actually it might be a valid reason, but then you don't use the same person only for sex. I don't want to moralise here, but that's just not right. It's pure selfishness. He gets the bit of the relationship he liked, but you suffer and he doesn't have a problem with that. Huh.. I know you're hoping and it's normal because you're in love, but try to have a look from the distance and rationalise.