Hmmmm, there are consequences to EVERY CHOICE we make. Friends w/ benefits is what it is. If you didn't want the consequences then a different choice should have been made. He is doing exactly what YOU AGREED TO when you accepted getting into that kind of relationship.

You want love, you want someone who cares then that is the kind of relationship you look for & don't settle for anything less. You can't EXPECT when you agree to one kind of relationship that it will turn into something else just because you want it to.

Hard decisions you need to make that will determine the direction of your future