Thread: Just venting...
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Old Nov 14, 2017, 09:28 PM
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So I cancelled an interview set up by a recruiter today, as the job was on the other side of the country and I know I can't handle that big a move mentally right now. It would destabilize me. I would probably end up hospitalized.

Anyways, prior to me cancelling, the recruiter changed the day and time of the interview on me 3 times and at the last minute. I contacted the recruiter about an hour before the interview to let them know I was pulling out of the search and didn't want to waste their time as I didn't think it was a good fit.

She had the nerve to email me back and say I had wasted their time...when I was the one who flexible enough to move the appointment THREE times for them and to a time of day that was not convenient for me but was convenient for all of them. The fact that they moved the appointment so many times was part of why I cancelled. I'm not moving to another city AGAIN only to end up in a miserable job with people who are flighty like that.

I don't need interview practice at this point...I've probably been on 50 interviews since I lost my job and they all ask the same questions...I always make it to the top two and then they choose the other person, and at that point it's just personality that they are choosing on.

I was just very irritated that threw that in my face after rescheduling THREE damn times and the last time was on the same day of the interview. Like their time is worth something but mine isn't? Makes me not feel so bad about cancelling since they act like that.

I'm just venting. Don't need any advice.

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