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Originally Posted by LiteraryLark
I am glad you are on the right track. Take care of yourself, take time for yourself, and allow him the space he needs to recover. I think the friendship route is best at this point. It doesn't mean no relationship down the road, but for the quality of life and health for the two of you, being there as a supportive friend in the meantime may lead to a stronger love in the end. I wish you the best of luck.
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I'll try to talk to him again even tho I feel I'm probably doing a wrong thing...but at this moment it doesn't matter much because he'll end up in hospital and get help anyway.
Even tho it's not the real him and the way he's trying to manipulate me, I don't want him to feel alone and last memory of me to be that I've stopped talking to him.
Even tho he's not personality that rules over his body and mind..I don't want any bad blood with this personality in any future. :/
I won't mention that I accept what he wants tho,i really don't want to provoke him again or have another fight and make things worse..his state of mind is bad as it is
all I'll say is that I love him,will always love him and I'm here for him..i just don't want him to feel alone,despite what kind of twisted personality it is..if that's not enough and he will still attack me despite my reaching out to him,then there's nothing else I can do...I'll just stop writing till he's back from hospital
My real man actually told me once when we talked about that switch, that it'd be good if I had good relations with that personality...it'd make things easier for me and in a way him. At that time I told him that that probably will never happen because every time I've tried it always acted like it hates me,despises my very exsistence.
This behavior now is much more mellow so I guess it's worth a try...right?
I think that's ok,right? :/