I am wondering (in order to understand what’s going on) if you have not seen him this year and you said it doesn’t sound that you’ll see him next year either and you barely ever talk on the phone because it’s overwhelming to him, how do you conduct your relationship? Emails? Texts? Skype? How many times you actually met him in real life, if ever?

I also have to ask are you generally interested in a relationship where you can spend time together, do things together? Eventual commitment maybe? Or you see it as strictly virtual for now or for years or forever? How do you see it?