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Originally Posted by spidytolerate
I love this person. We are sort of in a relationship, but not a traditional one.
I crave love. So much. I just want to be loved, held, given flowers. Presented to family and friends by my partner.
Having him proudly kiss me in public. Having them text me good morning and good night, having them tell me they love me often. I donīt know why, but i crave this so much. And it makes me very sad.
He does not love me, i donīt think. I tell him i love him and he never says it back. I do not know if he will ever start loving me either. I want to be loved, but i donīt want to ever leave this person.
Iīm so stuck. Itīs making me sad, making me feel left out and cold. What do i do? Thereīs nothing i can do, is there?
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Have you ever heard the old saying, "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" This is the situation you are in with a man who is using you. And will continue to use you until you put a stop to it. Prepare yourself to bleed over and over again if you remain in this loveless relationship.
You sound more addicted to him than anything else. This is not real love. No wonder you're so sad and depressed. Please seek out professional counseling to help you see how you're destroying yourself over a man who does not care about you.
"Stop crossing oceans for people who won't even jump a puddle for you"