The idea of manipulating a straight woman into kissing you is equally as offensive as the idea that a man can manipulate or "change" a lesbian into kissing him. Is that really the message you want to send? With all the prejudice in the world-- which I have suffered my fair share of-- giving straight women an actual reason to fear a lesbian sleeping over at a girl's night-- just rubs me the wrong way. I've had straight friends/acquaintances fear that I would hit on them just because I'm gay-- which, of course, I would never do. Not interested in straight women. But with other women actually doing that, it gives straight women a reason to continue unwarranted homophobia.

Think about how you would feel if a straight guy was planning out a manipulative game where he would become your friend, invite you to sleep over as friends, and then-- just when your defenses were down-- make a move on you. Because, after all, he thinks he can "change" you and has no respect for your orientation. Would you like that? Or would it hurt you to know he was never your friend-- he just wanted to manipulate you to get a kiss.