Two years seems extremely long time to not see ones life partner as you worded it. Unless of course he is in the army and is deployed or in jail (even then you can get visits)

I’d be concerned that in time of need he doesn’t want you by your side. If you are as deeply in love and soulmates as you stated, I’d think he’d like you by his side at least once a year, especially if it’s a bus ride, not even a flight. If he doesn’t want you around in time of hardship how would you move on to real life relationship/living together?

Do you enjoy this relationship? It sounds like it’s full of stress. Now sure relationships don’t have end in time of hardships. But you aren’t really with him.

Have you ever been in real life relationship? Happy? Treated well? It sounds as you might not be aware that soul mates and deep love doesn’t means suffering, being treated poorly and not even seeing your boyfriend for years!!! In addition he wants to break up with you. How many more years do you want to spend on doing this.

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