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Originally Posted by feileacan
So you really believe and hope that she will change and starts putting your interests first and starts behaving as a professional responsible therapist? That she will start focusing fully on your issues in sessions (and permanently puts away her phone during that time), that she stops behaving defensively, that she starts helping you to be able to confront her, that she starts accepting her flaws and taking responsibility for them, stops manipulating you so that you wouldn't need to take care of her anymore etc etc. Do you think that her changing that way is likely? How likely?
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You’re right. That’s a lot for her to accomplish at one time. I think this last issue shows me that she won’t take responsibility for something she’s caused. She forms excuses for herself and then believes it. Ultimately I’m the one that gets affected. When i started therapy i wasn’t even thinking that this would’ve been an issue. I already had so many issues to begin with . i didn’t need more.