I don't see how any of this has to do with gender whatsoever.


this is wrong I will agree but reading all your posts, I dont' see how it has to do with girls being harder.

The rest of the first post sounds like just a bunch of dysfunctional behavior but when you mention the brother, it sounds like favoritism to me, but that is not exclusive by any stretch of the imagination, do boys or males in the family. Pure and simple favoritism is wrong and yes there are cases where some parents will favorite a child because of gender but that's not across the board

I don't see anything in your post saying that they've ever stated or implied that he was the favorite because he is male but I will say this, if that's true that does not mean the stereotype that it's harder as a girl in a family fits.