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Originally Posted by Sarmas
She just texted me not too long ago with her 9am opening tomorrow and if I voice myself then I’m wrong and she gets defensive. She will say come in and we will talk. Particularly in this case she needs to explain herself a little more via text or email. I’m not willing to just go in. I might be wrong but i feel forgotten and not valued as a client.
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This sounds exactly like the attitude of my first T. He is definitely narcissistic. Each time I criticized him or complained, he would get extremely defensive and sometimes even acted very emotionally, like a hurt kid or something. Never apologized for anything just turned it back onto me, started to discuss it as my transference and told me I should express my frustration in session. But that's not what I wanted to use my sessions for, to pay him to discuss his issues.
Taking a break from your T may not solve the situation though, probably just start yet another cycle of frustration.