Guys like that will tell you what you want to hear to keep you hanging on in anticipation of something they never intend to do.

As for BDSM, that inherintally is not about the kind of love you are looking for....its about sex not love... you are involved in something in a way that will NEVER get you what you are looking for in life.

No wonder why you are feeling depressed when you are walking down a path that isnt even heading in thevdirection of your real internal dezires & you cant get there from where you are because the life style doesnt even head you in that directiln....quit listening to his lies that keep you hsnging around. Actions speak louder than words (lies)....he is using you for one thing & one thing only & you ate freely giving him what he wants but you will NEVER get what you REALLY WANT from him.