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Nov 15, 2017, 01:23 PM
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Member Since: Nov 2017
Location: sweden
Posts: 52
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Quote:
Originally Posted by wolfgaze
I like this quote... Perhaps you will find it to be relevant:
"The near enemy of love is attachment. Attachment masquerades as love. It says, “I will love this person because I need them.” Or, “I’ll love you if you’ll love me back. I’ll love you, but only if you will be the way I want.” This isn’t love at all – it is attachment – and attachment is rigid, it is very different from love. When there is attachment, there is clinging and fear. Love allows, honors, and appreciates; attachment grasps, demands, needs, and aims to possess. Attachment is conditional, offers love only to certain people in certain ways; it is exclusive. Love, in the sense of metta, used by Guatama, is a universal, non-discriminating feeling of caring and connectedness. We may even love those whom we may not approve of or like. We may not condone their behavior, but we cultivate forgiveness. Love is a powerful force that transforms any situation. It is not passive acquiescence. As Guatama said, “Hatred never ceases through hatred. Hatred only cease s through love.” Love embraces all beings without exception, and discards ill will" ~ Jack Kornfield
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Thank you for this quote. It is something i try to live by. To love unconditionally and be unselfish. He told me it was my turn to be unselfish after everything he has done for me, and to be honest he is very right.
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