The last time I went to my sister's to see my parents the entire time I sat and visited with them my sister paced back and forth through the room. Then she finally came in to the middle and declared that her road was going to be blocked off and it would not be safe for my vehicle to be where I parked it. This was a lie as her road was not going to be blocked off and my vehicle was not in any danger. My parents reacted with "Don't send her/take her away" they looked like two children upset. Every time I call she answers and insists "keep it short" and as I talk to them on the phone I can hear her in the back ground saying she needs to use the phone, LIE because her and her husband both have cell phones so she doesn't actually need to use the phone. Each time my parents actually react where they feel rushed or bad in some way.

It was way different when I got to be "alone" with them before she had them move in with her.

The last time I got to visit with my Mom "alone" is when she fell at my sister's and broke her wrist and ended up in a rehabilitation facility, my mom was SO HAPPY to see me because we were always so close. My mother would constantly say to me "she is jealous of you" and I honestly felt uncomfortable when she said that. One day I could not drive there but I called and it was nice because my mother would answer the phone and I could talk to her directly without having to deal with my sister. I had a nice conversation with her and my sister figured out when I was seeing my mother and began calling in an effort to shorten the visit. One time I was talking to my mother and my sister got all upset because she could not get through and then I got a call from her telling me that my mother was all upset and she accused me of talking about things I NEVER talked about. Then my sister took my mother out of that facility and never told me. I ended up talking to another woman who sounded like my mother but did not know me and it frightened me thinking my mother must be worse and suddenly did not remember me. Two weeks went by and the whole time I had not realized the person I was calling was not my mother and that my sister moved her without even telling me. So mean she can be.