It's ok to feel an interest in someone but save your feelings for them UNTIL YOU REALLY KNOW them. That was your problem last time.....glad you caught that this is what you are doing & are aware of this problem. Definitely an important issue to work on.....defining the difference between healthy interest in someone & falling for them.....it's sort of like make sure to call on your logical mind, not just your emotional one. When both parts of our mind work together, we can soar & we actually get a PEACEFUL feeling better than the highs & lows that only using our emotional mind can cause.