Be careful not to go too far the other way either dragonphoto. Let your feelings about reunion be clear without them getting in the way.

Kids love to see their dad bring their mom flowers or do special things for their mom. And mom's love the special attention to their femininity and needs too. Small steps, small gestrures and reminders of your love and affection should always be in the mix. In my humbled opinion.

It's one thing to be accepting while remaining eager for more. Its another to be accepting and giving up on having more. The former is filled with hope and prepares oneself for every opportunity... the latter sees defeat and is blind to any opportunity.

Stay well........