That is your choice & you know the consequences so dont complain when you dont get the love you want...with this statement you have chosen to live as FWB & without love. That choice is yours & when we knowingly make those choices there is no point in complaining because we get exactly what we have chosen. Your life & your future without love IS EXACTLY WHAT YOU HAVE CHOSEN. If you feel its better to stay with a guy who will never fulfill your need for love (& NO, leopards NEVER change their spots....especially when he can get EVERYTHING he wants from you without any requirement for committment) Totally your life, totally your choice you are the one who has to live with it.