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Originally Posted by eskielover
That is your choice & you know the consequences so dont complain when you dont get the love you want...with this statement you have chosen to live as FWB & without love. That choice is yours & when we knowingly make those choices there is no point in complaining because we get exactly what we have chosen. Your life & your future without love IS EXACTLY WHAT YOU HAVE CHOSEN. If you feel its better to stay with a guy who will never fulfill your need for love (& NO, leopards NEVER change their spots....especially when he can get EVERYTHING he wants from you without any requirement for committment) Totally your life, totally your choice you are the one who has to live with it.
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I´ve done some thinking. I often seek confirmation that i should leave him, or that he´s bad. It makes me feel good, and like a victim. But i´ve realized i´m not a victim. I make my own decisions. Either i decide that no, i don´t want him, i want something else. Or i decide that yes, i want him, and the lack of love is something i can accept.
And i choose the latter. I feel relieved. To finally have picked a side, you know? I enjoy making him happy, so that´s what i´ll focus on. And love well, i can get that from family and friends i am sure.