SpazKatt- I know exactly how you feel. The woman I believe(d) (????) was "the one" left me largely because of my anxiety and depression...so believe me that I hear ya.While I appreciate the generally positive outlooks people have posted about finding someone or being okay with oneself, I think it's important to consider the other side. Being alone is difficult, and being alone with anxiety and/or depression isn't any easier. Of course, being in a relationship with someone who doesn't understand these things doesn't work either. So, I'm like you - wondering how to make this puzzle work. What I hope is that ultimately I'll meet someone who has problems like mine, knows how to work with them, and that we can help each other. It doesn't make for a normal dating life per se, but I've learned to accept that certain realities come with the depression/anxiety package.


mj14 and I were chatting one day and wondered, "why isn't there a match.com for people with personality disorders?" Maybe that's the answer?!?!?1 SWM 31 Depression/Anxiety seeks SWF 25-35 to share anxiety attacks, seasonal depression and romantic rides to therapist.