Alice I have no doubt that you love this man great deal and are willing to make sacrifices for him to make sure he is healthy and happy. I never doubted that. You sound like a very loving kind person. My concern was that you aren’t getting same care and love back and your love life isn’t the kind you deserve. You deserve happiness imho.

But keep in mind we can only go by what you shared. I am somewhat confused how you went from your original post about him emotionally blackmailing you and him treating you very poorly and wanting to break up to apparently good loving relationship. But maybe I and others misunderstood your original post.

If you are happy and everything between you and your partner are going well and this is the kind of relationship you want to be in then I am happy for you and wish you the best!