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Originally Posted by golden_eve
Why do you say you can never fully leave him? My dear, please love yourself enough and respect and value your own needs and desires to know that this isn't all that you want and deserve.
My guess is he won't change... once he's pulled back into a state of friends with benefits AND broke up with you because of your mental health issues previously, most likely he is not going to switch back and fall in love again. He's already made it clear that the mental health issues you face are a dealbreaker... so he's downgraded the relationship.
WHY not be with someone who can accept you for ALL that you are? Please value yourself more. You're better than this AND deserve far better than this. You're mistreating yourself and are accepting sooooo much less than what you deserve. It pains me to see you doing so....
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That was very kindly said of you
Thank you. Itīs true i donīt think much of myself. He calls me stupid a lot, and thatīs something iīm really starting to believe. I was really struggling before i had him, but at least i had my own identity, strength, self esteem. Iīm much healthier mentally now and i want those things back. I think i can do it. If i stop depending so much on a 19 year old boy who just wants physical things. I donīt think iīm ready for a partner, but having a best friend would be awesome.
Hugs!