oh sweetheart, you are accepting verbal abuse from him. What he says to you is NOT acceptable. He is mistreating you. NO ONE deserves to ever be called stupid!!!! AND.. worst of all, you're starting to believe him. This is all false, and is a way to denigrate you, to demean you and to make you feel less than. You deserve FAR better.

If you used to have your own identity, strength and self esteem, you can certainly obtain that again. I KNOW that being single can be lonely and painful sometimes, but the self respect you get from walking AWAY from abuse and disrespect is immeasurable.

Please rethink this relationship, for your own mental health, your dignity and self-worth. You can do FAR better and deserve to be treated FAR better than this. Please think about it.

((((((((((Hugs)))))))))))