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Originally Posted by spidytolerate
I agree with you. No one deserves to be called stupid. Or maybe once if they actually did something stupid. But not over and over...I don´t think he realizes it´s making me look down upon myself. He genuinely thinks it´s a compliment. He said "you´re stupid, but that makes me happy"
Honestly, i´m so done with this. I deserve better. Whatever. I´m gonna give him the cold shoulder. I should treat him like just a sex object too.
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Hmmm... I don't even think just once is OK. It's a put down/an insult. Being called stupid is hurtful and demeaning. I've been called stupid in jest and let it slide before though. I guess it really depends on the delivery and intent, but in your case, it's just plain hurtful and demeaning.
And good for you for seeing that you deserve far better. I would not only give him the cold shoulder, but I would stop giving him sex as well. He's gotten too much of you already.....