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Originally Posted by golden_eve
Hmmm... I don't even think just once is OK. It's a put down/an insult. Being called stupid is hurtful and demeaning. I've been called stupid in jest and let it slide before though. I guess it really depends on the delivery and intent, but in your case, it's just plain hurtful and demeaning.
And good for you for seeing that you deserve far better. I would not only give him the cold shoulder, but I would stop giving him sex as well. He's gotten too much of you already.....
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Yes. I think so too. Iīve been thinking of it a lot, and i used to try to tell him no when he requested it. Donīt want to be too literal. I need to work on being more assertive and standing my ground, and not be convinced or guilted into doing it anyways. Sorry to get dark all of a sudden. I feel so guilty. If anyone knew the kind of things i do for him...I never thought i would be like that. I donīt blame him. He thinks i like "rough" things because i play along. I need to just not do it anymore. Itīs over the internet but still.